Once a child sat on the lap of his grandfather
and asked him a plain query.
"Grandpa, do you love me?"
and the old man immediately replied,
"yes i do"
The child asked next, "Do you love God?"
for this too the old man said. 'yes'.
Then the child retorted, "if you love God,
then you cannot be loving me;
If you love me, you cannot be loving God
at the same time, or to the same extent."
That is true. You have to choose

(SSS Vol V p13)